Expect the Unexpected everyday. This past week has been very interesting for me.  A system that I have relied on for years, failed me last week.  What this situation has done for me, has caused me to SHIFT.  I knew without a shadow of a doubt, I must make a change.

Everybody has a comfort zone and I have definitely been in my comfort zone for years and I had parked there. After grieving the past success with this system, I realized that everything changes.  I have not allowed myself to accept that this change was happening whether I wanted it to or not.

If you want to releave your stress, don’t allow anyone to cause you anxiety.  If you begin with the end in mind you can process any problems that come your way.  Learn how to EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED!

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones is affectionally known as the Queen of Hearts, a Dallas social worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is CEO of Rodcor Services LLC , an Author of 2 books, an Inspirational Speaker and she is on a mission to help women go from Concept from CASH.  Contact Sheryl at http://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com

This Monday Book  was so appropriate for me because I have found myself so busy in the last few months.  This book is an awesome guide map to turn your life around and start getting your life in order.

My book review is always my TOP 6 Reasons to Read this book:

1. People are busier now than any time ever and I don’t see things getting any better.  The book gives your 30 proven strategies to help you get in order.
2. We are all given the same amount of time. Are you busy or productive??  The book shares with us various case studies how others had been using their time and becoming more productive.
3. If you find just 1-2 habits that could change your life, would you implement them? The book includes 30 strategies that can help you, but what if you committed to just 1-2 of them.  I know that you can make major changes with 1-2 NEW habits.
4. Time can run away from you if you are not watching it.  The book gives several detailed examples of how if you continue to do the same duties you can reduce your time if write down your plans in advance.
5. Productivity helps with your finances.  In the book, the author has several business revenue examples that we can use to look at our business or personal finances.  I love to learn something that can help you save money.  One example that I found extremely helpful was:Giving your blog an outline which saves and money because you can focus that time during income producing activities.
6. You have control over that feeling of being “overwhelmed”.  The book gives so many tips and strategies to take control of your day but the one that I have found to most effective to me is: Know your DAILY Capacity.  It hit me, sometimes I have unrealistic expectations on what will happen during one 24 hour day.  I had to realize that SUPERWOMAN is FAKE and I can’t do everything in the same day.  I can do many things but I need to spread tasks out and become more intentional about planning my CAPACITY.  I found when I over do it: I don’t feel good, I don’t make good decisions, and ultimately the task that I was trying to do perfectly is not a fraction of how it could be if I would slow down and put more concentration in it. 

If you want to DO more with LESS time, RUN and get this book: IT’S 6 A.M & I’M ALREADY BEHIND. 

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones is affectionally known as the Queen of Hearts, a Dallas social worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is CEO of Rodcor Services LLC , an Author of 2 books, an Inspirational Speaker and she is on a mission to help women go from Concept from CASH.  Contact Sheryl at http://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com

As we enter the holiday weekend, I want you to remember the Independence requires some WORK!!!  It will be a great weekend but as you enjoy remember your part of independence.  You might need to make some changes to your current life.  Do you need to work on your relationship, your career or your health??

Give yourself true independence, get in control of your life.  If you want something, go get it. If you want a happily ever after relationship  If you want financial stability, develop it and if you want a BANGING BODY work out and eat right. 

My holiday message to you is Run to your own INDEPENDENCE!!!

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

If you want to challenge your mind, ask yourself if you are PITIFUL or POWERFUL.  Honestly it is a CHOICE.  When you choose not to show up for your life in full force you are being PITIFUL.  You probably don’t intentionally decide to be pitiful.  It might be just a lack of acting on the things that you desire to change.

If you are making a choice to change you stance from pitiful to powerful, do it with force.  Make major changes in life.  You might decide to learn something new if so give yourself  a date.  I am learning to dance by December 2016.  I have made a commitment by going to a dance class every week and spending time watching dancing videos and practicing my steps at home.  That is a commitment to do something different to get the new goal.  I know people who have decided that they will be a vegetarian for life.  That takes incredible focus and determination to leave with no meal ever!!

If you choose to be POWERFUL, I applaud you and encourage you to be diligent about your life.  Your courage can assist you to be POWERFUL.  It does not require a lot to change your choice.  You will gain so much confidence and live your dreams when you are POWERFUL.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

As most of you know I am a social worker, so I bet you can guess that I am a feeler. It is critically important to know how people think when you interact with them or you will spend a lot of time getting your feelings hurt.

Generally a persons brain is wired to be one way or the other way.  It might be something that you have never noticed or you might dismiss it to say: That person speaks their mind, or they will tell you the truth, even if you don’t want to hear it.

I found that most people that I interact with are feelers so we have little or no problem communicating.  During those times in my life that I have dealt with thinkers, I can usually just decide to be quiet and allow them to express their opinions.  Honestly in the last few years, I have been exhibiting some thinkers actions and attitudes.  I have found that I can be a good mix for both mind processing styles.

If you find yourself unable to communication with the opposite style of person, just take some time to realize that they are just wired that way and usually they don’t mean to be hurtful.

Take time to identify if you are a: FEELER OR THINKER.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

One of my favorite virtual mentors is Eric Thomas.  He is a master of making information STAND OUT.  This statement is so true, Information Changes Situations.  You see when you are seeking something, what you really want is information.  With that information you can change your situation.

 Let me be the first to say that many times we might not do a great job giving information, so let this be an area of improvement for you.  Learn how to get better at giving information.  I have been studying writing content for various websites, sales pages and blog posts and what I am learning is information should have the same meaning no matter who decides to read it.

If you have a situation that you are currently dealing with, always remember that: INFORMATION CHANGES SITUATIONS.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

If you have known me a while, you know I LOVE-LOVE to host events and parties.  I picked up this book.  This author is from Austin Texas and I love her simplicity and elegance.  Styling is similar to branding so I want to share my thoughts on how it compares. My definition of a brand is your mission statement in action.  It’s how you show the world who you are and what you provide.

When I read information and add my own twist to it so this is how I see this book:

1. Know your strengths and passions.  When entertaining we should know which duties we love to complete and get help for the other duties.  In Branding-make sure that you spotlight what makes you unique.  Your uniqueness can be defined by your strengths and passions.
2. Determine your vision. In entertaining make sure that you have a vision of what you want your dinner or event to look like before it begins.  I have a vision for events so I plan 12-18 months in advance. In branding know what you want people to think when they think of your name.  
3. Write it down.  In entertaining, I always have a flow chart especially for events, it is critical. In your branding, everyone should know what you provide and how you serve.  Printing your mission statement out and adding it to your printed material is a great ideal.
4. Be clear on what you are saying.  In entertaining, if you desire your guests to do something, tell them.  Be clear on expectations.  For example if you must be present to win, say that.  In branding, everyone should know how you make them feel by your actions.
5. Do you appreciate others? In entertaining, make sure you thank people for coming over or to the event.  In branding, have a customer appreciation system.
6. Think of the details.  In entertaining make sure you add a little extra’s-like a cool knife holder or personal gift.  In branding-what makes you stand out from others.  Make sure you appreciate what is different about you.

If you want to be a great host and offer a unique perceptive in entertaining pick up the book: CAMIELLE STYLES ENTERTAINING.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Do you BELIEVE the SKY is the LIMIT??  If you don’t start today.  The only way you will ever achieve the success you desire is to change your mindset. If you believe you are limited you will be.  I have taken every limitation off of my life and I am living in total belief that everything that I desire will happen without a shadow of a doubt.

If you ever want to get into the Land of Abundance it requires you to make a SHIFT.  It might take a little bit of work to change your thought but it is worth it.  I am making major SHIFTS in my business and life weekly.  Join me on the journey to prove: THE SKY IS THE LIMIT!

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Although this picture speaks to teenagers, this statement is extremely true for adults as well.  Everyone has times in their lives were things change.  People grow up, learn more, develop new habits and many times change what they like.  If we don’t maintain a relationship with our friends, co-workers and families, we might find that our rules turn into a rebellious relationship.

If want to be better leaders or if we truly want to inspire those around us, let’s work on our relationships.  In life everyone will change to some degree.  It might be that you get older and want to express yourself more or you might get more withdrawn.  As a good friend, watch the changes that happen with your friends.  If you notice something is out of the norm for that person, as them to get some help or better yet go with them to get some help.

In this extremely busy world, that some time to work on the important things and RELATIONSHIPS are one of those things.  Make sure that your life includes great health, wealth, a peaceful mind, a spiritual centered mind and great relationships.  If you have all of these I truly believe you can make the rest of your life be the best of your life.   Always remember: RULES WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP=REBELLION.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl