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Are YOU Pitiful or Powerful???

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If you want to challenge your mind, ask yourself if you are PITIFUL or POWERFUL.  Honestly it is a CHOICE.  When you choose not to show up for your life in full force you are being PITIFUL.  You probably don’t intentionally decide to be pitiful.  It might be just a lack of acting on the things that you desire to change.

If you are making a choice to change you stance from pitiful to powerful, do it with force.  Make major changes in life.  You might decide to learn something new if so give yourself  a date.  I am learning to dance by December 2016.  I have made a commitment by going to a dance class every week and spending time watching dancing videos and practicing my steps at home.  That is a commitment to do something different to get the new goal.  I know people who have decided that they will be a vegetarian for life.  That takes incredible focus and determination to leave with no meal ever!!

If you choose to be POWERFUL, I applaud you and encourage you to be diligent about your life.  Your courage can assist you to be POWERFUL.  It does not require a lot to change your choice.  You will gain so much confidence and live your dreams when you are POWERFUL.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Feelers VS Thinkers

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As most of you know I am a social worker, so I bet you can guess that I am a feeler. It is critically important to know how people think when you interact with them or you will spend a lot of time getting your feelings hurt.

Generally a persons brain is wired to be one way or the other way.  It might be something that you have never noticed or you might dismiss it to say: That person speaks their mind, or they will tell you the truth, even if you don’t want to hear it.

I found that most people that I interact with are feelers so we have little or no problem communicating.  During those times in my life that I have dealt with thinkers, I can usually just decide to be quiet and allow them to express their opinions.  Honestly in the last few years, I have been exhibiting some thinkers actions and attitudes.  I have found that I can be a good mix for both mind processing styles.

If you find yourself unable to communication with the opposite style of person, just take some time to realize that they are just wired that way and usually they don’t mean to be hurtful.

Take time to identify if you are a: FEELER OR THINKER.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Information Changes Situations

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One of my favorite virtual mentors is Eric Thomas.  He is a master of making information STAND OUT.  This statement is so true, Information Changes Situations.  You see when you are seeking something, what you really want is information.  With that information you can change your situation.

 Let me be the first to say that many times we might not do a great job giving information, so let this be an area of improvement for you.  Learn how to get better at giving information.  I have been studying writing content for various websites, sales pages and blog posts and what I am learning is information should have the same meaning no matter who decides to read it.

If you have a situation that you are currently dealing with, always remember that: INFORMATION CHANGES SITUATIONS.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Monday Book Review-Camille Styles Entertaining

c.stylesIf you have known me a while, you know I LOVE-LOVE to host events and parties.  I picked up this book.  This author is from Austin Texas and I love her simplicity and elegance.  Styling is similar to branding so I want to share my thoughts on how it compares. My definition of a brand is your mission statement in action.  It’s how you show the world who you are and what you provide.

When I read information and add my own twist to it so this is how I see this book:

  1. Know your strengths and passions.  When entertaining we should know which duties we love to complete and get help for the other duties.  In Branding-make sure that you spotlight what makes you unique.  Your uniqueness can be defined by your strengths and passions.
  2. Determine your vision. In entertaining make sure that you have a vision of what you want your dinner or event to look like before it begins.  I have a vision for events so I plan 12-18 months in advance. In branding know what you want people to think when they think of your name.  
  3. Write it down.  In entertaining, I always have a flow chart especially for events, it is critical. In your branding, everyone should know what you provide and how you serve.  Printing your mission statement out and adding it to your printed material is a great ideal.
  4. Be clear on what you are saying.  In entertaining, if you desire your guests to do something, tell them.  Be clear on expectations.  For example if you must be present to win, say that.  In branding, everyone should know how you make them feel by your actions.
  5. Do you appreciate others? In entertaining, make sure you thank people for coming over or to the event.  In branding, have a customer appreciation system.
  6. Think of the details.  In entertaining make sure you add a little extra’s-like a cool knife holder or personal gift.  In branding-what makes you stand out from others.  Make sure you appreciate what is different about you.

If you want to be a great host and offer a unique perceptive in entertaining pick up the book: CAMIELLE STYLES ENTERTAINING.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

The SKY is the Limit

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Do you BELIEVE the SKY is the LIMIT??  If you don’t start today.  The only way you will ever achieve the success you desire is to change your mindset. If you believe you are limited you will be.  I have taken every limitation off of my life and I am living in total belief that everything that I desire will happen without a shadow of a doubt.

If you ever want to get into the Land of Abundance it requires you to make a SHIFT.  It might take a little bit of work to change your thought but it is worth it.  I am making major SHIFTS in my business and life weekly.  Join me on the journey to prove: THE SKY IS THE LIMIT!

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

 

Rules without RELATIONSHIP = REBELLION

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Although this picture speaks to teenagers, this statement is extremely true for adults as well.  Everyone has times in their lives were things change.  People grow up, learn more, develop new habits and many times change what they like.  If we don’t maintain a relationship with our friends, co-workers and families, we might find that our rules turn into a rebellious relationship.

If want to be better leaders or if we truly want to inspire those around us, let’s work on our relationships.  In life everyone will change to some degree.  It might be that you get older and want to express yourself more or you might get more withdrawn.  As a good friend, watch the changes that happen with your friends.  If you notice something is out of the norm for that person, as them to get some help or better yet go with them to get some help.

In this extremely busy world, that some time to work on the important things and RELATIONSHIPS are one of those things.  Make sure that your life includes great health, wealth, a peaceful mind, a spiritual centered mind and great relationships.  If you have all of these I truly believe you can make the rest of your life be the best of your life.   Always remember: RULES WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP=REBELLION.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

 

A CELEBRATION-Over 400+ Posts

 

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A CELEBRATION of 400+ posts!!!!  I am super excited to share my thoughts and ideals on a daily basis M-F on this blog.  Thank you for following me. 

In November 2014, I decided that I would start to write on this blog because I want to put a positive message in the world.  If I could help 1 person this blog would be a success.  Needless to say, it’s been almost 2 years and I have had several people reach out to share how the blog has helped their life.

If you are writing, keep it up and you too can: CELEBRATE 400+POSTS!

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Are Arrows being SHOT at YOU???

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Are Arrows being SHOT at YOU??  If so be encouraged because that means that you are IN FRONT.  It is no accident that the more you advance, the more problems come your way.  The bible states “To Whom MUCH is given, MUCH is required”.  Several rappers say “More Money, More Problems”. 

If you find yourself being shot down every day GET EXCITED.  I truly believe when things are difficult for you and everything seems to be not going right, you are being challenged to go to another level.  During every difficult season in my life, something GREAT happens right after that time.  I want to give you the HOPE that TROUBLE DOES NOT LAST ALWAYS.  The rain will stop in your life.  The arrows will stop coming for you, the shooters will get tired when they see that you will not be stopped.

Just always remember that IF ARROWS ARE BEING SHOT AT YOU, THAT MEANS YOU ARE IN FRONT.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

Monday Book Review-Sales Secrets of the Left EYE

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The MondayBook Review-Sales Secrets of the Left Eye.  This book is  must read for all aspiring speakers.  If  you want a competitive edge in the field of speaking it is this book is simply a GREAT Tool to go forward in your career.  Storytelling is an needed part of any GOOD speech, I am going to even state that a speech can be OUTSANDING with the addition of impactful stories.

This book is a great way to learn how to provide a great speech.  The stories are really good examples of how we can take information and make it interesting for an audience. The examples shared allow you to imagine your own life.  The techniques and skills help build confidence which can lead to closing sales easily.  If you are committed to learning skills to enhance your speaking this book has just the right amount of information to help you start or jumpstart your career.

Rod “The Storyteller” White is a MASTER at telling stories and coaching students on how to tell GOOD stories.  His training is compact and really insightful for anyone wanting to start or become a better speaker.  If you are desiring to be better at speaking invest in: SALES SECRETS OF THE LEFT EYE.

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl

 

Movie Review-Now You See Me 2

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This is movie was truly amazing.  I loved the 1st one but this one was even more ingenuous.  I love movies that cause you to think how did they do that!!!!  This movie was one just like that. 

Let me break the movie down into my TOP 6 Lessons from the movie:

  1. Prove the naysayers wrong-Many times we have people that nice things to you but they really hope that you fail, so they can say I told you so.  It’s time to prove them wrong.
  2. Are you the LEAK???  Are you the person that keeps sabotaging your business, your relationship, you employment or your life in general.  Many times we don’t realize but our words can cause so much grief in our life.  Some times you need to look in the mirror and realize that you are the LEAK.
  3. Desperate people will do anything.  I had a good friend tell me one time-business can’t be done when you are in desperation.  At the time, I wanted to punch her but I saw her point because when you are desperate you will try anything to help yourself.  Just stop and breathe and work on the plan that God gave you.
  4. You are becoming the person You are chosen to become! WOW okay so can you make any changes???  Sure but ultimately you will be the person you were chosen to be.
  5. Life is MAGIC.  Do you see the MAGIC everyday???  If you don’t open your eyes to the possibilities.
  6. People will always be watching.  I think about facebook, so many times people will not like or comment on your post but they are definitely watching to see what you will do next.  Realize that you are a celebrity because someone is watching you somewhere-embrace it and enjoy your life.

If I can invite you somewhere, take time out to go see this movie: NOW YOU SEE ME 2

From the bottom of a grateful heart,

Sheryl Jones-Queen of Hearts

Sheryl Jones affectionally known as The Queen of Hearts, is a Social Worker turned International Motivator. Sheryl is on a MISSION to provide LOVE to everyone she meets. Sheryl began the LOVE OF HEART MOVEMENT Radio Show to help identify entrepreneurs, service providers and community volunteers who ALWAYS serves from the Love of their Heart when dealing with others. She truly believes what the World needs NOW is LOVE!!!  Sheryl’s primary focus is on teaching STRESSED OUT women who can’t figure out how to earn money doing what they LOVE, formulate a plan to spotlight their genius. Sheryl takes women from “CONCEPT TO CASH”. Go tohttp://www.sheryljonesqueenofhearts.com to connect with Sheryl